I met a guy off bumble last week and he invited me out to a little piano concert and a couple of pints after. I had a really nice time however he kept making very suggestive jokes, it turned very sexual very quickly. I did say to him god you’re presumptuous aren’t you? We’ve just met! Told me I was very attractive and he can’t wait to get to know me, but it was the amount of the sex jokes! I have no intention of sleeping with a man I’ve just met at all. We have a second date planned for Friday evening, and I said I have to go home early ish as I’m busy Saturday, and I will be going home alone.
I just have this gut feeling that he’s going to be the same again. I’m okay with having a bit of a joke but it became so sexual so quickly. I’m no prude, and I believe sex is important in a relationship but I do not know him!
I don’t know whether to give him the benefit of the doubt that it was just nerves or whatever, or cancel the date. What would you do? I don’t know if I’m put off or not ready to get to know someone or what, I’ve no idea how I feel I just feel a bit weird about dating someone especially someone so forward within the first few hours of meeting me. what do we think? I made no sex jokes at all, he was the one that brought things up first. He also gave me a light tap on the arse while I was in front of him on the steps in the pub. I’ve never had this before so I don’t know what’s normal and what isn’t! I am 30 btw so not exactly that young, just not used to the dating thing.