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Is Hinge just for sex now then?

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hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 00:43

Aftershow No GIF by YoungerTV

Inundated with dick pics, girls 😩

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HappyToSmile · 10/10/2026 17:23

I no longer give my number out. It filters out a Lot.
It is also a crime now, so any more you get, take a screenshot and tell them you'll be passing this onto the police. Then don't reply to any begging apologies.

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:27

ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:22

You really give yourself too much importance.

I don't know you to dislike you.

And as you know I simply mentioned the gif and the 'girl' in my deleted post.

Either way, don't worry about it.

I'm certaintly not.

Not really - I know there's posters who dislike what I post. They don't know me personally, but still find a way to harass me when I post and chat. I'll never understand it, just dont engage!

It's what I do when I don't like someone's posts.

All the best, bye now.

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ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:28

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:27

Not really - I know there's posters who dislike what I post. They don't know me personally, but still find a way to harass me when I post and chat. I'll never understand it, just dont engage!

It's what I do when I don't like someone's posts.

All the best, bye now.

None of that is my problem I'm afraid.

Starting a thread doesn't give you the right to decide who can and cannot post on it.

But you know that anyway.

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:29

HappyToSmile · 10/10/2026 17:23

I no longer give my number out. It filters out a Lot.
It is also a crime now, so any more you get, take a screenshot and tell them you'll be passing this onto the police. Then don't reply to any begging apologies.

😄 it's true, at least I'll wait for longer to give my number out! The couple of guys I thought were normal turned out not to be though!

I saw someone say on their profile, 'dont offer me sex'. I laughed but I get it now

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hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:29

ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:28

None of that is my problem I'm afraid.

Starting a thread doesn't give you the right to decide who can and cannot post on it.

But you know that anyway.

It doesn't - but it's weird to harass someone that you know you don't like.

Like, please, leave me alone 😩😩😩!

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MrsDoylesLastTeabag · 10/10/2026 17:31

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 10/10/2026 17:08

Anyone else reading out the title of this thread in a Mrs Doyle voice and adding 'Father' to the end?

Ahem - I read every thread in a Mrs Doyle voice. Father. 😜

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:36

MrsDoylesLastTeabag · 10/10/2026 17:31

Ahem - I read every thread in a Mrs Doyle voice. Father. 😜

😄

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ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:36

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:29

It doesn't - but it's weird to harass someone that you know you don't like.

Like, please, leave me alone 😩😩😩!

I don't know what sort of game you're playing here but I'm not harassing anyone and it's plain for everyone to see.

This is all very silly.

If you don't like my posts then you should probably take your own advice and scroll past.

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:38

ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:36

I don't know what sort of game you're playing here but I'm not harassing anyone and it's plain for everyone to see.

This is all very silly.

If you don't like my posts then you should probably take your own advice and scroll past.

Oh please stop - you don't like me or my posts, that's fine! Why you're still quoting me, I don't know.

I think that on a thread that I started, I will respond as I deem fit

If you don't like someone, leave them alone!

Just give it a go, it'll feel great.

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cartagenagina · 10/10/2026 17:39

I think you’re supposed to stay on the app for safety. Why don’t you just do that OP?

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:42

cartagenagina · 10/10/2026 17:39

I think you’re supposed to stay on the app for safety. Why don’t you just do that OP?

Is everyone actually doing that though? I felt like it made me seem a square.

I will delay the period of giving my number out now, that's the best course of action.

Although the two men I did really chat to beefore whatsapping seemed so normal. And we swapped numbers to video call/phone call

But instead it was dicks ahoy

Maybe I could be a bit more chatty on my profile as well - to make it clear I'm looking for more than just a dick pic in the middle of the night!

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FudgeSundae · 10/10/2026 17:42

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 15:46

Completely agree - my first reaction to seeing that was - eww

But then, tbh at least they're honest! Far better than being led on before being subject to their pics

I do have a look, I am only human, before shutting the chat down

I do have a look, I am only human, before shutting the chat down
Does this bit stand out to anyone else? I don’t know any women interested in disembodied penis pictures which makes me wonder if this thread is for real.

ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:43

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:38

Oh please stop - you don't like me or my posts, that's fine! Why you're still quoting me, I don't know.

I think that on a thread that I started, I will respond as I deem fit

If you don't like someone, leave them alone!

Just give it a go, it'll feel great.

Why on earth are you insisting I don't like you??

As I've already said, I don't even know you.

So you've either got me completely mixed up with someone else, or you're just being strange for reasons only you know.

Either way, it's all very odd.

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:44

FudgeSundae · 10/10/2026 17:42

I do have a look, I am only human, before shutting the chat down
Does this bit stand out to anyone else? I don’t know any women interested in disembodied penis pictures which makes me wonder if this thread is for real.

So... You get a dick pic and you don't have a nose before deleting??

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catinboots26 · 10/10/2026 17:44

I quite like a dick pic 🤷🏼‍♀️

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:46

ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:43

Why on earth are you insisting I don't like you??

As I've already said, I don't even know you.

So you've either got me completely mixed up with someone else, or you're just being strange for reasons only you know.

Either way, it's all very odd.

No, I just want to post my thoughts and chat to people - I can't help that people don't like the way I talk or what I chat about, but once I know I just leave them to it

But I can refusé to be harassed

You could give leaving me alone a try? Since you think I'm weird anyway.

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hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:47

catinboots26 · 10/10/2026 17:44

I quite like a dick pic 🤷🏼‍♀️

From a handsome, normal man

After a normal amount of time of knowing me

They can be really great

Samantha Jones Wow GIF by HBO Max
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ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:48

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:46

No, I just want to post my thoughts and chat to people - I can't help that people don't like the way I talk or what I chat about, but once I know I just leave them to it

But I can refusé to be harassed

You could give leaving me alone a try? Since you think I'm weird anyway.

Just. Leave. It. Now.

I won't address my posts on this thread to you anymore 👍

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:48

ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:48

Just. Leave. It. Now.

I won't address my posts on this thread to you anymore 👍

Thank you, I knew if you gave leaving me alone a try, you'd feel great 👍

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FudgeSundae · 10/10/2026 17:50

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 17:44

So... You get a dick pic and you don't have a nose before deleting??

Hand on heart, I could not be less interested in a picture of a penis, even someone I am attracted to. I thought most women felt the same!
so yes, “ugh delete” would be my reaction.

ShitFacedShakespeare · 10/10/2026 17:52

FudgeSundae · 10/10/2026 17:50

Hand on heart, I could not be less interested in a picture of a penis, even someone I am attracted to. I thought most women felt the same!
so yes, “ugh delete” would be my reaction.

I'd hazard a guess most women do feel the same, hence the change in the law.

Indecent exposure isn't something most women feel comfortable with.

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 18:00

FudgeSundae · 10/10/2026 17:50

Hand on heart, I could not be less interested in a picture of a penis, even someone I am attracted to. I thought most women felt the same!
so yes, “ugh delete” would be my reaction.

From someone you don't find attractive, 100% you wouldn't want it 🤢

But from a hot guy, I would at least have a look?! I don't think I'm alone in that tbh, I don't think most women would say they weren't the least bit curious, if the man was sexy

The day that Drake leaked his nudes was a great one (as long as he did, non consensual sharing is awful) I definitely wanted to have a look

I don't think that's unusual really.

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BlueberryBabs · 10/10/2026 18:03

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 18:00

From someone you don't find attractive, 100% you wouldn't want it 🤢

But from a hot guy, I would at least have a look?! I don't think I'm alone in that tbh, I don't think most women would say they weren't the least bit curious, if the man was sexy

The day that Drake leaked his nudes was a great one (as long as he did, non consensual sharing is awful) I definitely wanted to have a look

I don't think that's unusual really.

But do you really think these blokes are sending you their actual real penis? I thought men who did are those who like to exaggerate.

hotmumshit · 10/10/2026 18:05

BlueberryBabs · 10/10/2026 18:03

But do you really think these blokes are sending you their actual real penis? I thought men who did are those who like to exaggerate.

Oo now that's a point!

You'd hope so, but it could be just ripped from porn! Can ai make Fake penises, not sure

The two i recieved from the 'decent' seeming guys seemed legit, one had his face in, and the other, the guy had a mark on his hand which was in the photo

Gosh what a world we're living in

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