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Does anyone have this on their facenook when they go to their reel history

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orangedog22 · 02/10/2026 10:31

Hi yes I check my partners phone because he’s made me an insecure mess . I hate porn and I have told his numerous times that it’s a deal breaker. Hes lied so many times in the past . When he’s telling me he’s not I still feel like he’s lying so I check his phone not a lot maybe a few times a year . Last night I looked and I found this under his reels . No I havnt got for you under mine i have nothing . I have also seen his reels before and they were full of half naked women so this is why I had a look . Could someone tell me if these accounts can randomly come up or is it because that's what he is looking at ? Im going to text him once I know more about it . Please no nasty comments . I am only looking for a reason . Thsnkyou

Does anyone have this on their facenook when they go to their reel history
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Foolish1984 · 04/10/2026 09:28

Do you think you can cope with having to do this for another 40/50 years? Checking his phone and questioning what you’ve found? That will be a loooong and miserable life.

SleeplessRoads · 04/10/2026 09:33

DH has some quite explicit reels come up on his feed. I know because he often shows me as it’s unbelievable they’re just on Facebook without actively searching for them.

Yesterday his reels in bed were along the lines of:
DIY
Cute dogs
DIY
Conspiracy theory
New iPhone tips
Explicit leg spread vagina clip
Car repairs
Cute pandas
Dog product ad

Lugol · 04/10/2026 15:21

Youtube isn't much better. I had logged out of mine and was watching youtube, it clearly thought I was a man and the shit it was showing me was unreal.
Lots of half naked women, what very much looked like porn and lots of stereotypical male videos.

I had no idea that sort of crap was on Youtube.

It's depressing to be honest.

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