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Where has all the love gone.

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iamgoingmad · 28/06/2008 13:33

Have been with dp for 7 years. We have a dd already and I am 5 weeks pg with our second. I know that I can be very touchy but I feel like I am going mad at the moment. DP and I are constantly arguing, I know that I am responsible for 50% of the arguments but I just dont feel loved anymore. During the arguments he calls me nasty names and I find that i throw insults back just to hurt him ie I hate you etc. I am in a really dark place and feel so alone.

We dont talk anymore and we can not find any common ground. He says I am being unreasonable and I think he is. I love him so much but feel so worthless and unloved. (I am sure he feels the same, I am not saying it is all his fault).

He doesn't believe that hormones can alter my moods and says it is just an excuse for me to be a bitch.....

Dont know how to approach getting this sorted out. We used to have such a loving relationship why has it gone wrong. It has been like this for the last month or so. We never spend any time together he works days and i work nights and weekends....

Sorry i am not explaining my self very well, I think i may just need to rant...

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sunnytimes · 28/06/2008 19:12

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notnowbernard · 28/06/2008 19:18

Blimey, how did you manage to conceive?!

It sounds really shit, sorry you are feeling so sad

Try and get a bit of time alone together. Can you book some annual leave anytime soon, give yourself some proper time off?

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