How do you deal with it, Mil has SIL children all the time, sleepovers most weekends, childcare over holidays most days, takes them on days out I could go on and on. We are independent and barely ask because I dont feel like we can and to be fair she will have my son 6 hours a week on one day when which I am very grateful for but I just find it really difficult, my mother treats all her grandchildren equally and I can’t get my head around it
husband says leave them too it but as the children are getting older I think they will pick up on it and it makes me feel sad. I appreciate mothers have bonds with daughters but I have boys and girls and I just can’t imagine treating them different.