Hello. I just wanted to come on here, as it’s easy to talk to friends but good to get someone on outside too.
Me and my partner are always very happy and hardly ever argue. Don’t get me wrong we have argued before. Anyway we went on a 2 week holiday with my family, was gorgeous. Came back, things were good as usual. We have a 3 year old son, he likes watching kids YouTube sometimes and on my phone, my partner said on holiday that he can give him his old phone which he recently changed instead of having mine on occasions, one morning I said to him would it be ok if our son had his old phone today as I had a lot of work on and he said sure il leave on charge upstairs. Hours later I went to get this phone and my child had some down time, the password which it used to be had changed, so I txt and asked what it was- he said I will set phone up for him when home as it still has all of my stuff on. I said I wouldn’t look at your phone? It’s for our son to watch kids YouTube, he then went on about how he thinks I would looo through phone and doesn’t want me to. I had the phone and somehow guessed password it was all zeros - anyway this made me paranoid and curious as I wondered what he was hiding as wouldn’t bother me when he has picked my phone up on occasions- he had all of his iCloud on phone with naked pictures of his exes & also porn videos with them on there. Which yes is a huge disrespect to me but weirdly I was fine as underwood it’s in past and on iCloud memory on the phone. Anyway I felt guilty picking up this phone and doing this so I put it back, when he got home I told him I saw it all, he just went mad saying I should pack my things and get out of house & accused me of figuring out his passwords to social media and grabbed my phone and reset it and hid it incase id wrote passwords down on my phone?! I was trying to find my phone and he threw a glass of water in my face, then acted like it was a game in front of our son and made him throw water at me too (around 3/4 glasses) he then said if son wasn’t there he would have thrown the glass at me. He then threatened to break my phone into pieces. I managed to get my phone and he went off to the gym, he then txt me about getting my stuff and moving out and he’s only with me because of our child, said I have no friends. He has a trip to ibiza tomorrow also and said he will do whatever he wants out there & then went on to delete every picture of me off instagram. Like what the fuck? I honestly want to go but I have nowhere to go to. He’s shattered my trust to him within a day. He is now posting pictures topless on his story’s saying ‘Ibiza ready’ I’ve not messaged him once since. I know everyone is going to tell me to go, but this has never happened before. I’m just absolutely broken, I haven’t ate in 2 days- I probably wont eat the whole time he away either. I feel ill but also shocked.