I’m 4 years out of the worst relationship I ever had, and I never want to go back there, or have any contact with him.
I saw him again now, arms around a new girl, looking happy and content and I just felt terrified and then embarrassed because he clearly care one bit about me. It really threw me back a few paces and now I keep wondering about the new girl he was with. She looked happy and I was thinking that she might not know what he like yet because I have been there.
I never reported him for anything, and even downplayed some of the injuries he caused me. If others did the same there might not even be any way for her to check if he has form.
The very last thing I want is to have him anywhere near me or my family ever again, so I’m not sure if I should be making a report so many years later, and if the police would even be interested? I am sure that they’d find something incriminating on his phone or other devices but I feel that I might just sound like a bitter and jilted ex who wants to cause trouble.
He did horrible things, I have medical records to show what treatments I got, and I know 100% that he recorded some of the things he did, and I doubt that he has changed much since then.
I don’t want to explain why I didn’t report him years ago so please don’t have a go at me for this.