sooooo long time lurker, posted a few times, but name changed for privacy reasons.....
So my exDH moved in with my Ex friend after our marriage broke down- which was my fault, but i am not coping at all, we split early 2025 and i asked him to leave and he suffered some MH issues, sleeping in his car and sofa surfing at friends even though he mum lives a mile away, but after 5 weeks of us splitting up he then moved in with my ex friend as their relationship had broken down, lots of friends have sided with exDH and i am finding everything really hard, our friends say they were 'pushed together' but surely there must have been something going on in the background as do people just fall for each other :-(