I’ve been up since 3.30am with my 2 and a half year old so when she napped today I fell asleep as well then when I woke up I came in to the lounge and asked her dad if he will wake her up as she is groggy when she wakes and I felt groggy myself and just needed a minute. He mocked me when I came in for how I wasn’t really with it and then I replied ‘I’m not with it I fell asleep’ he said to me after about 10 minutes did you fall asleep? I said yes I did I already told you that (and isn’t it obvious I’d been gone for an hour and a half or so) he didn’t like the ‘tone’ I used although I really didn’t think I did use one and he instantly started getting angry saying I speak to him like a cunt and fuck this he’s going (he doesn’t live with me it’s his day off and came to spend it with us) so he left. I called him and he started shouting to a level that isn’t normal saying I speak to him like a cunt and told me to fuck off and called me a cunt, he said why did we even have our daughter too. I didn’t call him any names and I said to him I don’t feel that I deserve to be spoken to like that when I didn’t actually feel I said anything wrong in the first place. I’ve felt unhappy for quite some time now and actually feel he can speak to me however he wants mocking me and speaking off to me but I don’t raise it through fear he will get angry so for this to happen I feel isn’t fair when he can speak to me however he wants. I feel so lost and know he will not speak to me now until I reach out and expects an apology and he has done this several times now he leaves and I have to care for our child when I feel so distraught after an argument and he does as he pleases. I can’t just run away from looking after her like he does each time. Can anyone just share thoughts about this cos I literally don’t speak to anyone about any of these issues and I can’t see clearly if this is me that’s in the wrong?