Been with my husband 10 years, we have children between us but none together. Throughout the relationship I’ve always been the person to do all the organising, holidays, housework, anything to do with the kids etc. Recently I’ve just become so fed up with it all, I’ve tried speaking up but it falls on deaf ears and nothing changes. He refuses to have a diary but gets cross when he double books, doesn’t know when to take leave unless I’m telling him but yet somehow knows when all his sporting and work commitments are, I’m just tired of it all. Today I’ve been out for 9 hours and left 3 jobs to do which consisted of moving boxes that I’ve asked him to do for 4 weeks, Hoover downstairs and put the dining table straight. Come home and nothing has been done, he’s then turned round and said it’s my fault and I have no right to be cross/upsetas he’s been running round after me and my child as he’s been to 2 supermarkets to look for an item for family tea. I just don’t know if this is the end, I can’t keep going through life like this, I’m mentally drained and it just feels like we’re passing ships in the night. Can anyone give any advice as I’m at a crossroads.