Divorce over mental load?

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Is it worth doing it. Two young kids. Don't want to be away from them 50% time and he would go for 50%. He loves them alot. But is just so lazy/doesn't think. Mental load falls to me. I am exhausted. We have nice time together when im not holding resentment, talk alot, very good financially, dont go without, no stress etc
Just purely the fact we would live in a shithole, miss deadlines etc if I didnt do everything I did.

Tell me your storeis please. Reassure me its worth staying for the sake of my kids?

No,

You'll have to do it all but whithout a human chain around your neck.

is There some middle ground between divorce and continue to do everything. How long have you been together? If you are ok financially can you get help in - I assume you have talked this at length with him? I don’t think it’s worth staying in a marriage just for the children.

At length he improves a bit then slacks again. We have a cleaner mostly fortnightly. Would up it to weekly but he does shifts and when on nights cant have the cleaner in. But unfortunately w cleaner doesn't help keep ontop of day to day life with two young kids and a dog. Im just resigned to this is my life. I love my kids dearly and cant imagine being away from them.