So for a bit of context - my partner and I split (my choice) 5 months ago. Unfortunately we are still living in the same house until his house purchase completes. It is our daughter’s birthday in 3 days. He’s just had a go, asking me when I was going to tell him what we were getting her for her birthday. By which he means, and said, what am I buying and him transferring money to me. I explained we have split and I have organised presents. He feels very agrieved that I won’t just let him transfer money with no effort again. I’m done with all that stuff from him. More context - I work full time and he works sometimes but has money. Am I completely int he wrong for expecting some effort?