Been on 4 dates with a guy off Breeze (relevant as that app doesn't let you talk before you meet). The dates have been great, really fun, loads of spark. He's told me he finds me attractive, but I've only had two pecks so far and not sure why.
Anyway, it's been 2 weeks since date 4 (delay was unavoidable on my part) and we're meant to be meeting Monday after work. His texting is so inconsistent though. There'll be days where I get video messages or voicenotes with loads of humour and energy. He was on an international day trip last weekend and told me he wished I was with him. He asked me to go to an event with him in 2 weeks time. Then suddenly it'll drop off completely for 48+ hours before he reappears with a "what's new?" video. I'm confident he's not married.
He updated his dating profile the same night we had our first date but I don't know if he has done since. It does occur to me he's probably dating others.
Should I write this one off? I really like him in person but this is making me a ball of anxiety.