Help me

[Chocoholicbabes]

Just wanting some advice. I been feeling like this for a while now I want to leave my partner we’re not married. Got 2 kids together. He’s not abusive to me at all. He’s just very rude and shouty which my elsdest child who is 7 is picking up on it. I no I deserve better. Just don’t no what to do as I literally have no money what so ever. We don’t own our house. I have no parents no where to go. I just don’t no what to do or how I’d even go about setting up a new place for me and my kids.

Sorry youre having a tough time.
Could your partner move out maybe?

It’s his dads house and we rent it so no can’t do that unfortunately.

I'm sorry you're feeling so low. It does seem like a difficult situation. Are you able to find a job at all? - how old is the younger one?

Do you think your partner would make things awkward if he knew you wanted to split? Is he likely to use childcare or child access arrangements to make things difficult?

Does your partner work? - it's his dad's house, does he work for his dad? Do you have any access to the finances?

My youngest is only 2 and doesn’t go to nursery yet. Yeah he’s works and no not with his dad. To be honest to don’t have loads of money due to everything just being so expensive. So I feel like I’m actually doomed.

Could you put yourself on the council list? There is massive demand but not in all areas. If you live outside a big city you could apply and see what happens 🤷‍♀️

I think that’s the only thing I could do when I’ve said I want out of the relationship he just says see ya …… because he knows I have nothing 😭😭😭😭😭

You need to wait this out and have a plan. You need to find a job any job even the most minimal hours if thats all thats around. Then start saving as much as and when you can,dont let him know of any if your plans, work when he's home so he can watch the kids. It's a ducks in a row situation op