Need advice. Am chronically ill, multiple conditions, predominantly housebound. I get a lot of help from my dear mum who is 70. I have two boys 4 and 6, youngest starts school in September. Marriage has been under huge strain since my capacity reduced significantly due to sickness which is chronic and long term (ME CFS, POTS, chronic migraine, hEDS). Husbands family lives up north and we don’t really see them. My husband gets up with them 4 mornings a week and does bed time twice a week, he works full time hybrid. I work 3 days flexible and from
home but I’m barely hanging on to my job given sickness. Husband has treated me terribly and blames it all on stress. He has become like a huge dark cloud that enters the room because of all of this. I can’t cope with the marriage anymore, my nervous system can’t take it and living with my mum is not an option, given my limited capacity, how would I even begin to go about separating. No clue where to start and feeling very overwhelmed