Please tell me it’s not me in the wrong.
with my partner 6 years have a child together we both have families from Previous relationships. When our youngest was born I went back to work for around 2 years then it became apparent she had differences currently waiting to be assessed for autism as well as other things. She is non verbal and doesn’t sleep as part of her condition so I had to give up work to care for her and my partner constantly makes me feel bad that I am not working moaning he is paying the bills etc I do get dla which helps pay food cost etc but he is a high earner earning over £100k a year and to me that’s a very good salary but he acts like he is skint I don’t ask for anything I don’t buy myself clothes I do my own hair like I if I had the freedom to work like he does cause I do everything then I would want to provide all I can for my family but it’s like he doesn’t even see us as that. Tonight the curtain pole fell some which gave him a reason to start his moaning he said I’ve financially crippled him. We moved house and I had sold my house and put everything in to this which was over 50k to give our youngest a room yet he acts like it’s just his house saying tonight he’s selling it to get back on his feet. Please tell me he’s been horrible right it’s not me like I feel he doesn’t even try understand our daughters struggles. If I could leave I would but I have no income only my child’s dla coming in. I literally get like £400 a month and he says you get all that money a month what are you even doing with it like 🤯 he gets thousands and he’s skint apparently.