First time with new partner after LTR

[Strugglingmama1]

out of long term relationship
sx with new partner first time
he is v experienced and enthusiastic
I am so nervous and don’t want to disappoint

he suggests it’s going to be all about me
but do I reciprocate? I don’t want to upset by not reciprocating but also nervous as I am not skilled!

plus I have body confidence issues!

help!

This sounds like too much pressure. If u are enthusiastic then that should be enough. Don't worry about not being skilled, it's not an exam.

Had exactly the same thing recently. Tell him your concerns! mIne were different to yours, but to do with body confidence. Ask him to take it at your pace. You are not performing. If he's a good sort he'll respect that. I was really nervous but it was all great - so much so that we're having to slow it up because we are both knackered! There are a couple of things I've said 'no, ta' to, which he respects.
Good luck, and enjoy.