My husband has asked me to get weight loss surgery following a conversation about me trying to diet, he said I’m rubbish at them and gastric band is the only way to go. im scared of having surgery and I can’t have weight loss injections, I really want to learn how to eat healthier and cook better meals for us all but I’m struggling it’s been a bad few years with one thing and another, work stress, aging relatives, money worries, I have let myself go a little, I still try and do my hair and makeup, buy new clothes etc but I wear a lot of the same thing as I’m comfy in it. his request came completely out of nowhere and did upset me, he didn’t say anything nice about me or anything supportive. what other diets are good? I haven’t tried slimming world before, have tried weight watchers. any books anyone recommend for low fat recipes? just to add I am in decent health, I’m not a burden to him in anyway, I’m in my 30s and still work full time and do all the household work, childcare etc