My husband is constantly complaining of a sore stomach and it’s so draining. He constantly has a sore stomach and toilet issues whether it’s diarrhoea or needing the toilet multiple times a day rather urgently ( he also occasionally has blood bright red in stool and after hot food goes to the toilet almost immediately). Of course I have been sympathetic but it’s getting tiresome as he never wants to go anywhere or do anything because of it and if on a rare occasion we do go out somewhere with our toddler he moans all day and cuts the outing short. Now it may sound like I am being harsh but he point blank refuses to try and sort the issue. He went to the doctor a few months ago and they couldn’t find an issue but I wasn’t at the doctor with him he didn’t want me to go so I don’t know how honest he was with the doctor about how much it affects our day to day life. Now he refuses to go back to the doctor even though I have tried and tried to stress how important it is. My other suggestions of keeping a food diary / trying to find out if there’s an allergy he refuses to take part in. He has a terrible mood most days and it brings me down. Anyone had a similar situation with there spouse? Why do men never want to go to the bloody doctor !