Need advice before I go loopy. Hubby and I have been together 20 + years, last year or so has been full on health stuff. Anyway I broke my arm a few weeks ago, he had the cold (we've all had it). The day after i broke my arm which is my writing, everything arm he went to bed as he was ill with a cold. Spent all day in bed. I was left with 3 young children unable to drive, in a lot of pain with no other help. He point blank refused to help the last few weeks have been pretty much the same. He has managed his hobbies this week in between this despite being too ill to do much. I've been blamed for starting arguments and having too many hospital appointments. Honestly I cannot do anything more. I said I needed to sleep so he then decided to go do hobby stuff yet again leaving me with house stuff and children. I feel punished and paranoid that I'm asking too much from him. Some advice please, am I pushing it by expecting too much. He is my carer as well due to disability.