Can anyone help me pleaseee? I need to leave my husband, he’s a narcissist and our relationship is toxic. We have 2 children together, 10 & 7. All we do is bicker/argue and generally make life miserable for everyone. The kids notice and that destroys my soul but my husband pretends everything is fine & life is great, he’s an only child, he’s very needy but also extremely nasty (child like nasty, along with unaccountable, “not me, not my fault”! I’m nowhere near perfect but I can’t baby him or keep tolerating this). when I try to talk about this, he denies it all, calls me “crazy” and tells me everything is perfect. He works away sometimes and when he does, life in our house is calm/normal/fun! If it wasn’t for hi working away I think I’d probably believe that I’m “crazy” and that everything is ok,but it’s not ok, it’s not ok that our kids hear all the arguments. How can I escape this toxicity, for all of us not just me. We own our house (mortgage) but what rights do we have (me & the kids) because my husband (kids dad) is happy for us to leave but I have nothing financially.