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Blondie35 · 04/06/2026 19:52

So we had a break for quite some time and we started talking again he obviously loved on me. I just wanted to see he poured his whole heart out said how much he loves me that I’m his lie in the darkness and be patient with me please, and then we had a little disagreement that blew up because I missed his call and I was practising my singing And now he’s confident that I’m lying about my record label because I’m in the artist development stage and I’ve signed not a very good record label and they’re sort of shelving me so not hardly any of it is out is not out in public which he deeming that I’m a liar. Apparently he called my record label and the person said they don’t know who I am but you couldn’t give me the name of the person he called and spoke to. He has two friends apparently in the music industry that dog into me and I Have confirmed that I’m lying he wanted proof of my record label contract and I said I’d be happy to go through it with him face-to-face, but I’m not emailing him like contract. That’s just crazy. I’m not doing that. I never said I said no he’s pushed back said that it’s over between us. I’m a liar. He doesn’t trust me just endless stuff.

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PeoniesAreMyFavouriteFlowers · 07/06/2026 09:35

What a creepy man.

Please free yourself from him.

Don’t try at all with him. He’s awful.

Dery · 07/06/2026 09:53

It doesn’t matter what he says or thinks, OP. He just says what he thinks will hurt you and make you small, sad and compliant. This man wants to shrink you and shrink your life. He’s abusive and he will destroy you. The relationship ended before. End it again and keep him blocked and out of your life. You sound vulnerable. Have you done the Freedom Programme? And/or had other therapy to build yourself and your boundaries up?

Dery · 07/06/2026 09:54

https://www.freedomprogramme.co.uk/

AuntieDolly · 07/06/2026 10:09

Why does it matter why he does what he does? The fact he does it should be enough for you to block him and keep him blocked. Stop tormenting yourself- you’ll never win.

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