How can I manage my ex’s abusive contact while co-parenting?

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Need help any help of advice will do ?
My ex of 2 years will not leave me alone i have sen child 14 and i try to be fair let him see him keep facebook chat open so he can call him but i tired of the message and hate come from him towards me when i just wanna co-parent to make easy for my son to understand but i tired of his way he talk put me down or abuse message towards me i at a dead end and no idear what do next i try police but got told as he was sit outside on public path he was breaking any laws but him been their upset scared made me worry to go out 4 weeks is app he can vedio call my son with out messager he mesdage my friends family to get to me i at dead end and mental wanna give up any help be great thanks xx

Any help

Speak to Womens Aid for advice on handling him.
You could use a parenting App like Family Wizard, which is designed to help manage and record things. You install the app and tell him this is the only way you will be communicating with him.
Sorry you are going through this.

Block him. Use a parenting app to communicate. You've made concessions to him (using Facebook etc) but hes thrown that back in your face and make it unreasonable for you to continue.

I dont know the legal ins and outs, but I would log details of when hes outside your house etc and absolutely do make sure the police log it. Him lurking outside for a few mins might not be enough on its own, but if its part of a pattern they can and should do something.

Stay safe x

Parenting app Only. No other method of communication - no email/phone/whatsapp. And, make sure you do not rise to any bait/provocative statements. Keep your responses factual, brief. Take the oxygen out of his fire.

Thank u all xxx