NC for this as dont want it linked to my other posts.
I have been separated from H for around 1 year and we have kids together. I have very tentatively been dipping my toe into the possibility of causally dating as I have more free time when kids are with dad.
I met someone who ive only been seeing for a couple of months and generally speaking they seem lovely.
However, they told me that their past relationship wasn't very healthy with ex having a number of emotional affairs, they stayed together for kids etc and ultimately she left him for someone else.
He did confirm that in their 20s, a number of months before they got married he had a ONS, and told partner about this.
This was more than 10 years ago. But I just dont know if this is a current red flag?
Me and my ex split because he had an EA, so im very cautious about this, but also dont want to throw something away that maybe had been a mistake...