Hello, We recently moved to England as a family. I am 37 and my husband is 45. I worked my whole life until four years ago, but I stopped because we now have three very young children between the ages of 0–4, and I stay home to take care of them. We also have two daughters who are 14 and 15 years old. So at the moment, I am not working in England. My husband has a very good income and has always been someone who cared about me, respected my decisions, and never held back emotionally or financially when it came to me or the children. If you had asked me a few days ago about his worst quality, honestly I could not have told you one. We had what I believed was a perfect relationship. We met 20 years ago when I was 17. He was my first boyfriend and my first love. We married for love. I worked as a teacher and had a normal income, but my husband has a doctorate and earns much more than I do. Even so, everything has always been shared between us. We own a house together that is fully paid off, we both have cars, and we also own apartments that we rent out. His family is also financially comfortable, and they supported us a lot in the beginning, so we never really struggled financially. Emotionally too, they love me very much and I have always had a very good relationship with them. But now I do not know what will happen next. Because yesterday I found out that my husband has been cheating on me. If you ask how I found out: he was still treating me well, but recently he had started creating strange little arguments over nothing, almost as if to ease his own guilt. Suddenly he also started having more plans and trips. Yesterday he came back from a work trip abroad. While unpacking his suitcase, I found a hotel invoice. There were two separate rooms booked — one under my husband’s name and one under a young woman’s name. Every evening during the trip he had called us from the hotel room acting as if he was alone, with his belongings visible around him, but now I think the second room may have been booked just for appearances. I know all of my husband’s passwords for his phone, computer, and bank accounts. I researched the girl’s name and the address on the invoice. I found things like taxi rides booked to her address, a package sent there, a cinema visit, and even doctor appointments and medical tests arranged for her by my husband. Then I searched her name online and found her profile. About six months ago she posted a photo holding a very delicate ring with a flower on it, and in another photo there was a man I am almost certain was my husband, although his face was partly hidden. You could not fully see him, but he was kissing her on the cheek. At first I did not tell my husband how much I had discovered. I told him that someone had sent me the photo and asked him what it meant. Of course he denied everything. He said it was AI-generated and that it was not him. He said he loved me and could not live without me. Then he immediately messaged the girl saying that his wife had received this photo and asking her to send a picture of her “real boyfriend” so I would believe him. The girl sent a photo with another man. By the way, they do not text or call each other openly during the day at all. The girl is 22 years old. That shocked me the most. She is only 7–8 years older than my daughters. My husband still does not know that I found the hotel invoice or the things on his phone, because if I directly say “you cheated on me,” I feel like he may just leave. I have two teenage daughters and three very small children. Financially maybe I would survive because we have property, but I am not working right now. And honestly, I am thinking more about my children than myself. My older daughters are preparing for their GCSEs, and my younger children would grow up without their father. I cannot tell anyone. My heart hurts so much. Since yesterday he keeps looking into my eyes constantly, and he also unfollowed that girl and deleted the romantic comments, but I cannot trust the man I love anymore. I told him that if this is true, then it should end immediately and he should not even stay for the children, because my pride could not handle it. But he denied everything. Should I show him all the evidence? Should I leave? Should I ask him to leave the house? Please give me advice.😞🙏🏻🌸