Good afternoon all
I have been married for fourteen years but a number of years ago I discovered my wife had been having an affair for a number of years and the guy involved and his wife had been invited by to our wedding which was nice. So we share a house and I do child care stuff and are there as a father, we still have two teenagers at home, there is nothing going on between us and hasn't been for quite some time, we did try a bit in the wake on finding out but we are done . Its fairly obvious that she has had relations since and to be honest she hasn't been interested in me for a very long time , I think she has needs but we have never discussed some freedom for each of us, Im not doing anything but if I try bringing the subject up I get shouted down and told not to be stupid , I have been meaning to tell her that if she wanted to see someone its ok . The other night I got in from work late and on top of the wash basket was a packet from "RS Love , your secret wardrobe" , just there on top, I did google what was in there and they were crotchless black tights, got to say sexy but oddly practical. I know she does stuff , I wish we could get it out in the open and I wonder if I was supposed to spot this and it was expected to ask what they were for. She wore them out to a staff event with a long dress and boots etc, she looked great , I know this as I picked her up from the station. Now do I let sleeping dogs lie, or despite her protestations of how silly I am tell her its ok to get out there, she has needs etc , odd thing is she has sexy underwear, I have never been treated to it, never, a while back I was cleaning under the bedroom furniture and found a black lacy bodice/teddy type thing, clearly been worn and stuffed under there , I said nothing just plonked it in the dirty wash basket, havnt seen it since.