After a long and very unhappy marriage I left my husband and although I was by now in my fifties I met a man who at first seemed wonderful. After a couple of years I caught him messaging other women behind my back, he was very sorry and it blew over, after another couple of years he became obsessed with a woman that he had known for many years and wouldn’t leave her alone even though she had told him several times that she wasn’t interested. This had become the pattern of our lives, he is continually looking for someone else. He has never had any money but recently the money problems have got much worse and we are hopelessly in debt. I own the house and all the contents and at the moment he doesn’t contribute at all. He lies all the time, even to himself and had stolen money from me, even though I have very little. My children dislike him because of the way he treats me and they don’t visit us even though I see them outside the house. There is no love left and absolutely no respect, where do I go from here? I’m in my early seventies with only a very small pension and a load of debt that I have got because he doesn’t give me any money, I can’t work, I’m too old. The atmosphere at home is awful. I feel so lost.