I came out of an 10 year relationship last year with a lot of coercive control and just a miserable situation to be honest. I felt like it was over for a long time and I've dated a few people since. I have recently met someone that I initially thought would never be interested in me, out of a similarly long marriage and I thought would just be a casual thing so we slept together very quickly. I thought it would just be sex. But he's been in almost communication since, opening up to each other and going on actual dates along with mind blowing sex. Trying to just enjoy for what it is and have a great time after such a bad relationship. I'm also trying to be aware not to get attached but obviously feeling things when I'm with him and it's amazing.. friends think I'm stupid but is there any way I can keep going with this whole thing being aware it could end abruptly or would you just stop now? He's actually done nothing to make me think he'd hurt me, I'm just very cautious