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I made a mess in the bathroom i have bowel incontinace i tried to clean it up i asked him to undo the plug as i couldnt do it he saw the mess and he shouted your gone hes trying to kick me out the house hes selling the house he said i would have to live on my own theres no way i could live on my own im trying to get supported accomodation

Can you update us on what your situation is like in general?

I recall your other threads and know that you are in tremendous pain and in a very unhealthy and toxic environment that is not sustainable much longer.

Do you have anywhere else you can stay that’s not with him?

He divorced me as I couldn't stop talking about my feelings I was extremely distressed he was telling me to stop several times he didn't listen he rolls his eyes at me he says I'm a nightmare he said your gone as I made a mess in bathroom I was trying to clean it up he just took over and cleaned it up

I understand this specific incident OP but what is your plan outside of this? Do you have anywhere else you can stay? Are you engaged with any services like adult social services or your local GP for support? You need some professional support in order to get yourself into a safe and liveable situation x

I’m scared

You need to call the crisis team. Literally nobody on here can help you.

Oh lovely, good advice call the crisis team, they will hopefully take over and put in services to support you. Failing that call the woman’s refuge as soon as they open or make an emergency GP appointment. You should have to live in fear. Please keep posting. This isn’t the end of the world, maybe just the catalyst to a happier calmer life xx

They are rubbish they just said what do you enjoy

What do you expect strangers on the internet to do?

Im panicking my mum just said toughen up i told her i didnt want the divorce she put the phone down on me she said she wasnt discussing

I hope you’ve had an ok day. Please try and see your GP again and if they don’t listen ask to see another one. And contact the Samaritans- they won’t advise you but they will listen and help you get your thoughts in order

I think it would be a really good idea for you to speak to your GP to ask for some mental health support and agree also speak to The Samaritans too. You need and deserve some support in real life OP.

This poster has been posting about her ex for over 6 years always variations of the same thing and never listens to the advice.
These threads don't help her

I'm sorry op that is horrible. Sorry that your mom isn't more supportive.