This is ridiculous and I know the answer but feel I have no one to talk to. I’ve had an argument with my partner who is the father of our 2 year old. It’s long explaining the argument but ended with him saying he thinks I will mess up our daughters life as she grows because I am ‘too soft and will let her do whatever she wants’ and he wants me to give her up and his mum have her (they live together) and he sees her when he’s not working and I see our child once every few weeks. He came out with a bunch of nasty things and said to me that my dad who has passed is better off dead as he would’ve lived life disappointing in having a daughter like me and him getting cancer was a blessing and he hopes that cancer hurt my dad. This is disgusting. He said before he left ‘are we done, cos I don’t want to be done I love you’ he didn’t apologise for what he had said. I said I don’t want to talk anymore just leave and now I feel upset about everything and I know I should leave him but no matter whatever he does or says I seem to go back I can’t understand why this is.
What would you do? Do I reach out to someone to talk to? I feel numb. It’s always constant critism of my parenting and calling me names and dragging me down