I have namechanged, as it is quite possible mil comes on here (though unlikely) and I dont want her rooting through my past posts.
a long back story - I left h after he was saying he was seeing someone else, I came back after a week cos he was suicidal (he was then saying he wasnt seeing her, but was just 'wanting to'), we tried for a bit (not sure whether he was, but I was) he left 1 week later anyway. he would never say he was seeing this ow or not, but eventually (about a week ago) he admitted it and said they were going slowly and were only emotionally involved
anyway, this all kicked off 6 weeks ago now. so, we have been split up properly for about 4 weeks.
anyway... after 1 week it would appear that mil reposted all her online photos of me and h together, referring to me as the 'ex-wife' or 'ds's mum', and also moved all her photos from her 'my family' album to the 'more' album. I only noticed this cos someone commented on it to me.
Isnt 1 week a little bit soon? I mean, it is only in the past week or so that h has said he is seeing this woman (tho I know its possible for it to have been going on longer). I dont believe he would have told her anything different, as she has been known to stir in the past (that is an understatement).
It strkes me as odd that she is essentially encouraging h to leave his family (a 16 mo son is involved) and has totally dumped me and ds (I am her main chance of seeing ds, h wont do it)..
so is she being nasty, or is it usual for a mil to write you off after a week?
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how long does it take to become an 'ex' wife. Feel mil has been nasty..
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averyquickex · 20/06/2008 19:37
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