Baby (our first child) is 3 weeks old and I feel like my partner and I aren't connecting much. I go to bed before him and he does the midnight feed so I can get a decent rest and he is sleeping in the spare room so he isn't woken by baby who wants to feed every 2 hours so we don't have the usual cuddling/spooning in bed that we used to. He does his fair share of nappies etc and when he doesn't have to be up and out early comes into my bed for a cuddle etc. I feel like we're not as affectionate as we were before - I only really get a kiss goodnight, nothing else during the day - and we have had a few disagreements where we are both tired etc whereas we never had these before. I know this is a period of adjustment but should I be worried and how can I reconnect with him? He isn't really one to talk about feelings but I could do with some reassurance from him right now. Last night i told him I felt like we were housemates and he said something along the lines of baby being a priority now which of course he is but I feel we need to look after the relationship too.