Why do I bother??

[cupcake78]

Been trying to arrange for me and DH to have a lovely night awayfor the first time in over a year! DS is 9mths and we need the time together.

Just been to ask DH for some help with dates ie when are you going to be busy and what do I get - "I guess we'll just have to wait". Its now or never, I'm at college and go back to work in the next two months. In laws will have ds but we are restricted, obviously as to when.

I am so cross. I'm exhausted and just so fed up with him. I am just so tired I need a break and he doesn't seem to get it. I do everthing for him, house work washing ironing, meals washing up endlessly tidying up his crap - what is not to get!!

Sorry but i'm so fed up and knackered I could just sit and cry.

[littlewoman]

Cupcake, go back and tell him that you do not intend to wait. You want a date when the two of you can go away, otherwise you will go somewhere on your own because you desperately need a break. Don't be sad - stand up for yourself. He doesn't need to understand, he just needs to do.