How to move past this

[BakeCake6]

Hi, just looking for some advice on how to move past things that was said and done during an argument with partner about 2 weeks ago, partner was very cruel with what was said - calling me a liar everytime I tried to explain something, a bad parent, useless a cheat ( never go out on my own or have friends so don't know how they got that idea!)
That I never do much for them but they are always helping me ( not true, I do the best I can, same with being a parent, I try my hardest). Never phone them if I end up in hospital they wouldn't have sympathy, a b itch.
They have also been to the few people I do know and tried turning them off me which one of the people could have affected future plans I had ( don't know yet not seem them)

Partner has apologised since and said let's move on, which I did accept, but they keep making snippy remarks as though trying to get me to bite or fill guilty.

But I just can't get out of my head all the hurtful stuff that was said and done. Now they claim to love me and I'm the world to them. How can I move past it?

What do you get out of remaining in a relationship with this person?

Some of what you describe are classic abuse tactics.

What do you get out of remaining in a relationship with this person?

Some of what you describe are classic abuse tactics.i

I wouldn't move past it if my partner spoke to me like that. I'd end the relationship. Why do you think you should put up with that sort of behaviour?

Why on earth would you even think of wanting to ‘move past it’? Get angry and get out!

I always suspect that when one partner accuses the other of cheating in these sort of situations (random unrelated argument, no evidence, no grounds for making the accusation) it's because they themselves are cheating/thinking abiut cheating/have cheated. It's some kind of weird deflection.

I wouldn't move past it.