I’ve been with my husband for 30 years but we keep going round in circles. He is demeaning and his tone is often condescending which makes me furious. We have one son at home who after being a low contact father is now best buddies and I feel he tries to manipulate him and demeans and diminishes me in front of h which I find very upsetting. And infuriating. I often think he’s a condescending prick and am going off him now that I am older.
Am I bring too sensitive?
I gindcit a huge turnoff and very disloyal to the many years I’ve put into the children it’s as if he is teaching them it’s ok to disrespect me.
we work together and earn good money so a split would mean I would be out of a job but sometimes I long to be alone as I can’t seem to relax at home.
we go round in circles and I don’t even like him.
his parents both have dementia which is how he explains his behaviour but before that the stress of his job made him angry and diminishing my every contribution
im 56 and still get lots of other male attention which I really don’t want ( he says I will miss it but I honestly won’t!!)
shall I get my own place as I can’t spend another year like this.
its draining me but on the surface we look like we’ve got it all. We haven’t.
Sorry for the rant, I’m really upset and don’t know if I should start again