How do I know if this is going somewhere..should I ask?

[Nightowl1976]

been friends for years and met through mutual
friends. We used to text every couple of weeks just friendly chat. I’ve always been attracted to him.
i was out locally couple of months ago and he was there, we chatted and he come back to mine and we had sex. Have met a few times since and always had sex. We text everyday. He doesn’t ask to go on dates but will say come round at weekend which I am taking as he means for sex. I enjoy the sex.
im struggling to know if that’s all he wants. Been divorced and single for 5 years so new to this

Sounds like a FWB situation. Would you be happy with that? It's OK for you to tell him if you want more. And it's also OK for him to let you know if he's happy with just texting and sex. You need to have a conversation.

What do you want?
Maybe work that out first. If you want more, just say. If he’s not on board then at least you’ll know.

Seems like he's just coming round for sex. If you want more, suggest going out instead of shagging.