3 weeks ago I officially split from my boyfriend of just over a year. If I am honest it was a long time coming, filled with sketchy behaviour on his end (he was caught on Facebook dating in January having been matching people over christmas & new year) and distrust. The night we broke up he came over and hurled a load of blame at me for our relationship breakdown and his actions. I was quite upset and he used this to initiate us sleeping together. He immediately left afterwards and all contact stopped.
He randomly messaged me on Saturday saying "I lowkey hate you sometimes" and then again yesterday with "I don’t get you tbh but you’d like to grab some food together next week let me know". I said I would be open to meeting up to try and salvage a friendship as we had quite a good connection outside of the relationship issues. He, however, responded that we would be meeting as estranged lovers and has now gone back to no contact again.
Now, the more I think about it, I am generally confused and don't know if meeting up is a good idea. I have no idea what his intentions are and dont want to be stucked into something again. But I do care for him and want to stay in touch to some degree.
Help WWYD?