Am I really a nightmare for venting about the house sale?

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Been told I’m a nightmare I spoke a lot about selling the house as the mortgage company are putting pressure on us to sell I said I felt distressed a few times I said I hated Cody for going behind my back and telling everything to jenny I said I hated the family workers as they aren’t letting me be alone with my daughter I’m just venting as those people have greatly ruined things I said I won’t talk to him about my feelings there’s was a lot to discuss with selling the house and I don’t think that makes me a nightmare I’m angry other than that I’ve just discussed the kitchen my daughter had a nice time when I went out with her I hate him he doesn’t care about me

Eh????

Well, I didn’t understand a word of that.

Well, exactly. This is one instance where it really pays to look at the op's posting history. It's only one of many, many similar posts going back several years, and many posters - and MNHQ - have given up a lot of their time in a vain effort to persuade the op to engage with her local mental health services. She won't, or can't accept help, and usually ends up calling everyone "horrible" and disappearing until the next time.
I honestly feel for her, but I'm at a loss to know what anyone on here can do. Her last thread ended up being deleted as it was going absolutely nowhere, and I suspect this will end up the same.

Ummmm, no idea where to start with this as I have no idea what the actual issue is.

OP, you've been posting like this for years. You are not well. You need professional mental health care, and possibly rehab, that your family and Mumsnet can't provide.

" Been told I’m a nightmare "

Yup.

Ah, understood. Thank you for clarifying.

This user is getting help from MNHQ.

I would highly recommend searching her previous threads before commenting.

She is very unwell and these threads do not help at all.

Thanks for the heads up.

I only just found out how to search for someone's previous threads (I mean literally just) so will bear that in mind for the future.

OP you need to speak to your mental health team.

Nobody here can help you, you are very unwell.

Sorry you are struggling so badly with the end of your relationship.

Please listen to everyone else and focus on recovering and getting support.

How do you find a posters previous posts please? Thank you 😊

😂 I was lost after first sentence.

How do you find a posters previous posts please? Thank you 😊

@Marleyandme71 Go to Advanced search, paste the username into the "Search posts by a specific username" box.

Thank you very much x

I’ve contacted MNHQ to make them aware of this new thread. Having interacted with this OP before, I actually feel quite concerned about her.

I feel I can't say anything or do anything right I'm not a nightmare for discussions about selling the house there was alot to say he's just totally intolerant to me I'm not mentally unwell I've always had alot to say

You are unwell, OP. It’s why you have been sectioned twice. I genuinely have nothing but compassion for you and really wish we could do more to help.

I'm not unwell I got sectioned for breaking a door and having ticks

I really do wish you well, OP. Hopefully you’ll find the strength to engage with real life support.

He said I spoke for twelve hours he said he kept telling me to stop I don't believe I spoke for twelve hours I feel bad for not stopping I was on the phone all night to the samaritans he waz annoyed I kept him awake I didnt mean to

Scared i will be sectioned
I keep ruminating about the past i keep beating myself up for saying too much i can talk alot about anything i dont know why im finding it hard to stop talking i just have alot to say he dosent want to know so i will stop talking to him i phoned the dr and said i struggle to move on from past mistakes and traumatic experiences hopefull they can help me i feel scared i havent damaged my daughter too much from the nonstop discusions

You can always phone the Samaritans back.