Hi, not sure if this it the right place to ask? A family member has recently got into a relationship with a man she barely knows, engaged quickly (she was single at start of February and engaged by the end) and planning a wedding to happen asap. (She's constantly trying to compete my with long standing and happy marriage which is another issue in itself but not the point of the post, ha)! I just have a really horrible gut feeling about this person, to be clear, i haven't met him yet, haven't spoken over the phone, only 1 or 2 messages and everything else is heard from my family member.
Anytime he is mentioned or I see his name, I get this horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach, I feel sick and my heart races and I know that sounds extreme and possibly an overreaction but I can't control it. I just feel like here is something off about him.
My gut has never been wrong about people in the past and so I've been thinking i should do a Clare's Law application/request.
My question is, will he be notified of me doing this? Will my family member? I want the information (if there is any) for me not on behalf of family member, would I even be allowed to do it since I'm not the one in a relationship with him?
Thanks for your help.