and don't want a slating for this, as I have no intention of doing anything whatsoever, at all no way no how not even a coffee.
(back story) have been talking to someone online since feb, have only recently got around to meeting (I was with XP, various other things he was on holiday, you get the jist, never a good time) anyhow we did meet up and it was nice, we get/got on fairly well. he had a goodbye hug as you would a mate but NOTHING more - no kiss no nothing. he was showing signs of being v keen, but i've always had reservations- but none that I've paid attention to as prev mentioned was with xp so didn't notice really. anyhow fast forward to now - he's online at v v sparadict times - ie after 11pm or before 7am, He'll go offline without even a goodbye and then blame his internet. I can send a message, and it will deliver on his phone about 2 days later, anyhow,
a few weeks ago, he was sent abroad with work, apparently overnight, but he had a car crash according to him - he rang from the airport claiming to want to 'hear a friendly voice??' wtf had only met properly about a week before hand. anyhow could hear kids etc running about but he said was at airport so assumed was kids there. We then spoke online again for the week he was off work 'recovering' talking quite a lot during the day but nothing in the night. he wanted to meet then n have a walk around the field I walk my dogs on - but as I had DS I said no, he then said he was happy to meet DS/take him on as his own?? wtf???
anyhow we were meant to meet for coffee/a day together on sat, but at the last minute he said he had to cancel as the company where he rented the car from abroad had taken £1200 from his bank a.c instead of thecompany?? anyhow, I said fine whatever and to call when he was done and if i was as well we'd have a late coffee etc. He did the whole really gutted wish I was there to hold you etc etc, if it's made up well it's so far fetched could it be???
anyhow, then tried to arrange something for this week and the conversation we had tonight (after him suggesting something to night which I couldn't make went something like this...)
him: ok When
me : when is good for you?
him: for what may i ask
me: dinner, unless you don't want to do it/have coffee or something.
him: coffee and chat is fine i think
me: town would be next week.
him: maybe a little hug and kissing would also be nice aswell
him: well if you trust being in house with a guy yours?
me: i trust me - can i trust you??
him: well who knows if you end up coming on to me maybe not
me: who said i would?? i have self control besides i'm in no rush to get sexual with anyone!
so given prev details and the fact he went straight offline after I said that i'm now thinking:
- player 2) only after sex 3) isn't actually single as says. 4) there's something not right so not gonna bother but just want it confirming really if i'm being too sensitive. (bear in mind we do have quite a good rapore but I understand online you can be anyone) oh and he's meant to be 38, calls me his 'lady friend' but I don't think he's worth bothering with - is he??
be gentle with me! lol.