Now I have been with my GF for nearly 3 years and we plan on having kids, she wants to get pregnant this year and we are a good age to have kids because we aint too old (im 27 and shes 26) but although I really want to be a father but the thought of having my own kid makes me feel nervous, overwhelmed but excited and happy at the same time.
Its hard to explain but I feel like I would pass out in shock when my GF gives birth and I see my little one for the first time lol. Im also not an emotional person at all, I never cry and have always been emotionally reserved but I feel like that moment will bring my emotions out.
Even the thought of getting my GF pregnant makes me feel nervous and overwhelmed but in a good way. I never thought id find someone who would want kids with me. I also worry about things like my GF driving while pregnant or even her being off maternity leave because she doesnt really have any friends and her family will most likely go mad if they find out shes pregnant (they are strict and controlling) so she will most likely be in the house on her own while im working