Looking for some advice, this is perhaps one side of the story or what i have been told from my Daughter who speaks to my son, i aslo speak to him but he hasn't really said much unless he's had a row with this on and off girlfriend of about 2 years.
I'm just not sure what to make of it anymore, it's madness.
MY Son first met her from a old frind he had, my Son told me a bit about her, and her ex, her ex used to abuse her broken bones scares on her head all their kids taken away, panic button in case he turned up. so anyway my Son has fallen for her hook line and sinker, he just can't let her go no matter what happens. He's split up with her a few times for months and still goes back to her, it seems she just uses him, he had a row and come back to my house, he as saying she wants a man who will pay for everything fix everythig, her car, basicly wait on her hand foot anf finger, he said that when he wakes up he has to hope she in a good mood, or it will ruin his day, i can gather that it's all her way or the highway, she has him dacing to her tune, it seems, i just heard that he has no money at all as her Daughter has moved into her flat and she doens't want any ment there the same time she is, so he's been paying them to stay in accomadation to be with her, now the money has ran out she's gone back to her flat and he's back home with me on his asx again.
I told him when i first out about her and told him you can't fix that broken, she too broken, she damaged beyond repair and said she will affect your mental health too and then you will need repairing too. The situtation is insane, he has lost all his self respect and pride, she got him, and i don't how to set him free, i know it has to be himself. But i just don;t think he ever will, it's not like she's a super model, she's the opposite, but love is love, his mum wasn't the best but i loved her too. maybe he's following after me, leanred bahviour.
He's never got any money and she comes before all his bills, i just don';t what to do.
Thanks