Hi, first time posting. I have 4 children and im married. We got in touch with family members a few years back but things have slowly deteriorated to where ive stopped contact. Weve had FB posts about us not visiting enough, yanno the passive aggressive posts that aim it at you but they dont say its you posts. Every family member gets a happy birthday post bar me and my husband. my daughter is neurodivergent and its so so hard getting out and they know this. But we were recently very poorly and we got a message on easter, that was basically saying when r you bringing the easter eggs? No hi how r guys feeling just cold and to the point. We brought it up with this family member and when we said its really hard to get to them it was "thats a you problem and not an us problem". That was that for me and id reached my breaking point and id had enough. I blocked everyone, including nephews to stop any contact from the parents getting in touch with me. And me being stupid and petty I said on my Facebook that if you are bad to us then you lose contact with my kids. Am I doing the right thing? Because how can we maintain a relationship with someone that actively hates us? Bearing in mind, my children really dislike said family member and one of my children has been struck by one of them too. So I knew for me that interaction was enough for us to get out and cut ties. I'll gladly be called a villain in their scenario but if my children really dislike them and them added hate towards us am I still doing the right thing?