I’ve been dating a guy for nearly two years and in the past two weeks I’ve noticed an energy change. I feel that he has met someone else - call it women’s intuition. He has been an amazing partner, very attentive, obsessive without being a red flag, very into me in all respects .. to suddenly .. withdrawn. We were intimate and the chemistry was just not there and that’s never been an issue! When I asked him, he fiercely denies there being anyone else and insists nothings changed. I don’t know what to do and I certainly don’t want to become that person who seems insecure and ends up pushing him further away.
Also, this morning he was at the gym. He used to send me gym videos but not for a while. I messaged him and said, ‘I’d love a workout selfie’ An hour later he read it, when he was already at work and sent me a naughty gym shower video he’d taken earlier. Now call me paranoid BUT I felt he’d taken tha for someone else and just sent it to me too.
please advise, I’m breaking my heart.