Got myself into a bit of a pickle. Appreciate I'm at fault for part but not sure how to resolve this one.
In short, I had a business venture that failed that I've been paying off a small amount for over the past few months (not huge by amy stretch), but it's something I'd basically not told my partner about on an ongoing base as to not worry her / make it seem bigger than it was. Not because I wanted to lie, I just didn't want to stress her.
Issue is, we were talking through my outstanding balances last night and it came to fruition. Admitted to it etc, but instead she asked for more clarity requesting to see line by line statements to which I hesitated as the timing could not be worse. I've currently got a damn engagement ring sat on my card that I don't/ can't go into my statements for as it'll be obvious.
Appreciate this is self inflicted bur I've no idea how to get round this.