It’s a bit of a lengthy one…
So I split with my kids dad early last year, socially we used to go out a lot in a small community where most people know each other. There’s a guy who
ive had my eye on for a while, cut a long story short we started communicating around August time, started off friendly… problem is he considers my ex an associate and in the early stages he said he didn’t want to violate him where I’m concerned, however we’ve grown a lot closer in the last 6 weeks, I’ve made it very clear how I feel, he has also but I can tell he’s still cautious because of my ex. We communicate daily and it’s been amazing, although his communication has never been great from the start where he takes a while to respond, sometimes hours but he did highlight this in the beginning so it’s not been a shock but I do struggle as I’m a fast communicator. We had a great week of communication the week prior, we even saw eachother for a second time and everything seemed fine all week fast forward to last week, we were still talking normally but it slowed down a little but he said it was due to a heavy week at work, we last messaged on Friday night and we haven’t spoken since. My reasoning for not messaging first is I have ADHD and I know I can be a lot sometimes and I don’t want to seem to needy but I can’t think why he’s stopped messaging me, he normally posts a lot on WhatsApp stories he’s not done that and he hasn’t viewed mine, but he’s been active on other social apps and viewed my instagram
stories. … Am i overthinking things? Has he gone off me ? I want to ask but I don’t, 2 days not speaking is unusual for him, I’ve got strong feelings and I’d be absolutely gutted if he’s over it, I’m finding it hard to navigate a bit as I was on a relationship for 13 years so this is all new territory. Not sure what my next move should be ?