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Birthday blues

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OurBuild2023 · 17/03/2026 21:25

So my birthday tomorrow, a big one, the age I'm not bothered about . My husband wanted to take me away was but I declined ( all he wants to do is be in a pub and drink- not my idea of celebrating). I’d mentioned having a small something at home , a bbq maybe or just snacks & a few friends. I found out a few hours ago he has planned nothing. Our daughter is a few hours away at Uni, she didn’t come for Mother’s Day, went out with her friends for one of their birthdays last night & has been sending me photos of that & them enjoying their selves out today, I’m happy she’s having a great time but feel sad she couldn’t make time for me at the same time. Am I overreacting feeling disappointed 😞

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Neveranynamesleft · 17/03/2026 21:27

No you're not. Do the same for them when its their birthday.

Vodkamartini3olives · 17/03/2026 23:36

You're not unreasonable to be disappointed to not see your daughter. As an adult if you want to do something for your birthday then plan it. Invite some friends around this weekend for a BBQ and drinks.

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