Been with DP for 6 years. For the last year have been separated but co parenting (2 young dc). He’s moving house, his has sold but new one hasn’t gone through yet. He asked if he could keep some bits here whilst waiting for the new house to go through, I said no because I’m trying to keep boundaries the clear, he’s proceeded to just move back in! We have been getting on well recently but only as parents, I wouldn’t say in a romantic capacity. Things I’ve noticed that bother me are that he does seem to subtly put me down quite a lot, he’ll make comments about the condition of my home, or my appearance. If I get dressed up to go out he won’t ever comment that I look nice. We’ve had sex twice in 2 years. Not really sure what I’m asking here, I just feel like i’m watching my life unfold from above? Totally detached? theres lots more to it but I don’t want to waffle more than I have already…