I would love some positive stories.
Found out just after Christmas that my husband had a 7 month affair in the past year. We have been together for 25 years, i am in my 50's with 2 children at uni and one of 15. I was completely blindsided, and as we are still living together not able to really address moving on. We will tell the children we are separating after my daughters finals, and he will move out so we can have some space.
I cant seem to get my head round someone who i have been with for so many years can betray not just me, but the entire family in such a selfish way. It is very much about him, and how he has been looking for validation, but i just think another weak man who cant see the positives of what he does have, Its very frustrating that i dont think i will get the apology and closure that i deserve.
I am managing ok, booked holiday with friends and keeping myself active and busy. I am lucky as have an amazing group of friends and work colleagues who are keeping me relatively sane, but jesus, its the hardest thing i have ever had to deal with. Any words of wisdom wise women...