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Nightclub Antics

90 replies

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 10:10

Was out in town yesterday and got chatting to this lady at the bar. She seemed very nice and told me she fancied this guy who was in the bar. Fast forward 30 mins there she is getting fingered by this guy on the dance floor😟. Do people have no self-awareness or respect now? Or is it just the lust of alcohol.

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category12 · 22/02/2026 13:16

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 13:13

She just felt horny and decides to do that. Unacceptable

What's it to you?

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 13:16

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/02/2026 13:16

At least she wasn’t noshing him off on the dance floor.

They probably did that when they went home together

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category12 · 22/02/2026 13:19

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 13:16

They probably did that when they went home together

Again, what's it to you?

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 13:25

category12 · 22/02/2026 13:19

Again, what's it to you?

Why do they need to be doing that? Just enjoy your night without the need to hook up

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category12 · 22/02/2026 13:28

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 13:25

Why do they need to be doing that? Just enjoy your night without the need to hook up

How about you enjoy your night standing at the bar judging people if that's what you want to do, and let other people enjoy having hook-ups & doing what they want to do?

NowStartingOver · 22/02/2026 13:32

Write a formal letter of complaint.
Contact the police.
Buy a high-vis jacket and portable blue siren light, so that you can go up to people in a nightclub and warn them of their antics and how it offends you.
Perhaps even stage a protest outside the nightclub with a placard about the behaviour?

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:07

category12 · 22/02/2026 13:28

How about you enjoy your night standing at the bar judging people if that's what you want to do, and let other people enjoy having hook-ups & doing what they want to do?

Don’t want to see someone moaning and getting finger blasted whilst I’m trying to dance

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HelpMeGetThrough · 22/02/2026 14:10

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:07

Don’t want to see someone moaning and getting finger blasted whilst I’m trying to dance

She probably didn’t want to see your dancing whilst being fingered.

category12 · 22/02/2026 14:11

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:07

Don’t want to see someone moaning and getting finger blasted whilst I’m trying to dance

So turn around and shimmy in the other direction 😂

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:18

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/02/2026 14:10

She probably didn’t want to see your dancing whilst being fingered.

So your sticking up for her 😂

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chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:18

category12 · 22/02/2026 14:11

So turn around and shimmy in the other direction 😂

Could still hear her moaning tho

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category12 · 22/02/2026 14:22

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:18

Could still hear her moaning tho

Over the music in a night club?! 😂

Kudos to her on her lung power.

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/02/2026 14:23

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:18

So your sticking up for her 😂

Wouldn’t have bothered me what she was doing.

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:24

category12 · 22/02/2026 14:22

Over the music in a night club?! 😂

Kudos to her on her lung power.

she obviously met her lover

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chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:25

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/02/2026 14:23

Wouldn’t have bothered me what she was doing.

Why not? Didn’t know it was appropriate to get your vagina out in public

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HelpMeGetThrough · 22/02/2026 14:25

category12 · 22/02/2026 14:22

Over the music in a night club?! 😂

Kudos to her on her lung power.

That, or the bloke had fingers like Pat Jennings (biggest hands in professional football).

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:28

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/02/2026 14:25

That, or the bloke had fingers like Pat Jennings (biggest hands in professional football).

No she was just gaggibg for it

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ValidPistachio · 22/02/2026 16:07

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:28

No she was just gaggibg for it

So what?

TwistedWonder · 22/02/2026 16:55

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 14:18

Could still hear her moaning tho

And the shark was jumped at this exact moment

ForTipsyFinch · 22/02/2026 17:40

Eww you definitely wrote all this with your hands in your pants.

chelseyw23 · 22/02/2026 18:39

ValidPistachio · 22/02/2026 16:07

So what?

Valentine’s Day was last weekend

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TwistedWonder · 22/02/2026 18:44

ForTipsyFinch · 22/02/2026 17:40

Eww you definitely wrote all this with your hands in your pants.

Yep. Definitely typed with one hand while the other was busy

WallyHilloughby · 23/02/2026 15:29

I suggest you listen to Usher love in this club if you really want to clutch your pearls

OMG SEX!!!!

chelseyw23 · 23/02/2026 16:09

WallyHilloughby · 23/02/2026 15:29

I suggest you listen to Usher love in this club if you really want to clutch your pearls

OMG SEX!!!!

That’s the only reason people go clubbing now is to get a shag?

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category12 · 23/02/2026 16:16

chelseyw23 · 23/02/2026 16:09

That’s the only reason people go clubbing now is to get a shag?

Why did you go?

I expect other people go for the same reasons as you, unless you're unique in every way.

This is one man & woman and one song.

And what do you mean, "now"? Getting off with people in nightclubs has been a thing since ... nightclubs began.